Personal Opinion - Obedient Wives Club

I still do not and will never understand or agree with the 'Obedient Wives Club'.

No one can go against it, because it's based on religion. But the name of the club pisses me off, I mean... Come on! 'Obedient Wives'?? Really?? How about 'Female Self-Empowerment Club' or something less similar to referring to wives as trained dogs. Definition of the word 'obedient':

"Complying or willing to comply with orders or requests; submissive to another's will - Google"

In international news, it was mentioned that the 'Obedient Wives Club' angers Women's Rights Group. Well, doesn't it. Referring to women as objects and the traditional thinking of women serving their husbands. View and refer to the photo below to read what the Joint Action Group for Gender Equality (JAG), which includes the Women's Aid Organisation, Sisters in Islam and Women's Centre for Change, have to say about this. They have my full respect!

The fact that the main reason of this 'club' is to reduce the amount of failed marriages, i believe that it is not right. When a marriage fails, both parties are at fault. So why put the blame on women? Create an 'Obedient Husbands Club' and it will be reported as discrimination and will be protested by men. Now we have the men of these members, feeling happy and hopeful that their wives would acquire amazing skills for activities in the bedroom.

"Perak mufti, Tan Sri Harussani Zakaria, has given his backing to the Obedient Wives Club, which offers “sex lessons” to help women keep their husbands." - The Star Online

Of course he does! He's going to receive better sex (or he thinks he is)! Why wouldn't he agree?

Talk about conservative, I thought our country has always emphasized the fact that we are a Muslim country. And now, we have the this joke of a club teaching women to be (I quote the vice-president of the club, Dr. Rohaya Mohamed) "better than a first-class prostitute". After her words went viral in the media, it has been savaged and subjected to ridicule, she covers up with, "I believe we have been misunderstood and misinterpreted. When we said that husbands should treat their wives like first-class prostitutes, we were not putting wives on the same level with prostitutes. We are talking about first-class elite types, not street hooker types". No matter the types of escort or prostitute she compares, 'street hookers' or 'first-class elite types', it still means 'prostitute'!

I agree with the Johor Islamic Council advisor, Datuk Nooh Gadut, who said "The use of the term 'first-class prostitute' was extreme, adding that marriages in Islam should not be just for sex but for, among others, love." - The Star Online

I am very curious about what their meetings or classes consist of. It had me thinking, teaching modern wives how to please their men in the bedroom, how would they possibly conduct the classes? Then the coordinator of the 'Obedient Wives Club', Fauziah Arrifin, when questioned on what these classes consist of, stated that the club will not be giving out practical sex lessons as it is illegal. In an earlier interview, Dr. Rohaya Mohamed mentioned that the club would provide bedroom lessons to the Obedient Wives Club's 1,000 members. This statement of hers received a comment from Fauziah Arrifin explaining that their lessons will consist of motivational talks and discussions among the members. The talks will be conducted by her, Dr Rohaya Mohamed, and eight other committee members. So in layman terms, it means it will be a theory lesson. What happened to practice makes perfect? Yes, I maybe contradicting, but I feel that if you are going to teach these wives to be 'better than first-class prostitutes', teach them right! Imagine what those theory lessons would be like. *A meeting room. Members seated on one side of the room. Speakers standing on the other side, in front of a projector. An image of male genitalia projected onto a white screen background.* Oh, come on!! It doesn't work that way! To make the speakers jobs easier, they should just project scenes from pornography films.

Selangor Abim Chief, a Muslim NGO leader says that the setting-up of the 'Obedient Wives Club' is not necessary for education on how to make husbands happy can be conveyed personally. - Malaysia Kini Online

This is sexual discrimination. Very one sided argument to blame women for failed marriages. Do you agree? What are your views on this 'club'? And to the men, how would you feel if a 'Obedient Husbands Club' is created to teach you to be submissive and obedient to comply to your wives orders and requests?

Why she's my best friend

Funniest thing happened today. My best friend, Dhaima, and I had a business training today. As usual, she's always late :p So we attended training till about 12.30pm then I told her that I'll drive us both back to the office as she did not drive today. We got into the car and just as we were pulling out of the parking, something fell and she started screaming and panicking. For a moment there, I thought she encountered a rat, my deepest phobia. So not knowing what was going on, I screamed too. I pulled the car over to the side, and both of us swing the doors open and just jumped out. After 20 secs we thought we were silly and decided to check what it was. We found out why she screamed, and felt absolutely pathetic over it. It seems that my car air conditioning pipes were leaking and a few drops of extremely cold water landed on her feet. We then just laughed and felt stupid. On another note, we were heading back to the office and talking about lunch in the car. I brought whole wheat tortillas so we were planning on what topping to buy. She suddenly mentioned, "Yea! Chula tina would taste amazing on those!". I looked at her and laugh, "What the hell is a chula tina?". She was trying to say chilli tuna. God we broke down in tears. I guess the whole drama of a rat falling onto her still has her all shaken up. Funny-ness :D

Anyway, after work, we'll be catching the movie Kung Fu Panda 2 together. We got free movie screening tickets from some clients from work. Can't wait! It's already Thursday, this week has gone by waaaaay too fast. I kept thinking it was still Wednesday... My bad. Oh well, back to work and back to chatting with this guy friend of mine. Someone I met when I was socializing in the cafe a month ago. Went on a biking trip with him last week, and it was the best EVER! Rode up to Genting for lunch. Chilled out there. Amazing weather there. Me loves the cold! Looking forward to our next biking trip! Either that or looking forward to riding my bike! Still have no idea on which one to get though. Hmmm.... dilemma.

A Whole New World...

Yes, I've done it again. Abandoned my blog in the longest time ever. Well, I guess it's time to give a little update on my lil life. My blog is just somewhere I rant about my life and what's going on. After leaving it for almost a year, a whole lot has happened. Everything in my life changed. I've been super busy with my job as a media planner, which is awesome. Plus the new things in my life? New people, new cafe, new perspective, new goals, new determination, and soon..... a new bike of my very own :D

Will explain everything step by step. Let's start from the beginning of 2011. A whole new year, a whole new beginning. Met so many new people! One of those people used to be someone important in my life, until I realized that no matter how much I try to help him in his life, all he does is talk. Talk about his problems, talk about his goals, and that's where it ends. It never goes a step further than talking. No action and that annoys the hell outta me. So one day I woke up and told myself enough is enough and now I'm a whole new person! No matter what I've gone through, the past is the past. I have him to thank for my current life. He was a entry card for me to expand my network and further my interest in motorsports. After awhile it was all me, as we know I socialize really well with practically anyone. So the rest of the life I'm living now, kicked off from there.


It all started with a cafe. Not just a plain cafe but the first motorsport-themed cafe in South East Asia! I've put alot of time and 'heartwork' into Super GP Caffee (SGPC). So far I'm the events director for the cafe and we've had so many events there. SGPC is doing really well and I love socializing there. It's always my hangout place after work or a place to meet up with friends. Super GP Caffee has a really nice ambiance, dim lights, plush couches, pool table... everywhere you look there's always something interesting, even the washrooms! The food is really great and cheapest alcohol in Subang. Awesome cocktails!! So the latest event we're helping out with is the Super GT International Series Malaysia. So far we've done the Super GT Malaysia Queen Search 2011 for that. Looking forward to more events. This cafe led to a lot of advances in my life.
For more information on Super GP Caffee, visit: http://www.supergpcaffee.com/


I have been riding as a passenger with some friends and a biking group. We've been on biking trips just to enjoy and pass time. Conclusion?? I absolutely LOVE biking! I love biking so much that I'm going to be getting a bike of my very own. The dilemma?? I have 2 bikes which I've been introduced to and no idea which one to go for. Planning to get a 2nd hand one first as a first bike. The 2 bikes I've been debating against is the Honda CBR 600rr and the Suzuki GSX-R600.
I want my bike to be in my favourite colour, RED! :D


Planning to get biking gear to fit the colours of the bike. Anyway the Honda is around 187kg and has 105 bhp. The Suzuki, on the other hand, is around 192kg and 110bhp. So here I am, confused and torn between these 2 bikes. I'm 163cm tall and 58kg in weight. Help me figure this out?? Would really appreciate it :D

For now my blog entry will stop here. Look forward to more updates or the continuation of the story to my 'whole new world'. Lurve yah!

Around the corner...

Yes! Here it is. Halloween is just around the corner! Or another name for it, Samhain. Samhain is an annual Celtic celebration also known as the "festival of the dead". It is a celebration to celebrate the circle of life, celebrate the elements of life and death, celebrate the beginning and ending of a year. It is believed that the border between this world and the other world become thin on Samhain.

For this years Halloween celebration, I initially planned to go crazy! Dress up as a sexy vampire and go club hopping! First club Zouk KL then a few clubs next. Already had a group of friends willing to go crazy with me and enjoy the night of Halloween. But after a week of consideration, I suddenly felt like I do not want to go through the trouble. Maybe it's because I've been having fever these few days so it made me feel old and lazy. Instead, I remember that my little sister's birthday was coming and she's always wanted a costume party. So currently, Leo and I are planning a Halloween birthday for my little sis!! All her friends will be dressed up in cute little costumes and we'll be decorating the house. We want to make it as scary as possible for Shenz and her friends Ahhh... for all the time, money and trouble we go through for her party, I hope she enjoys it. Plus, one of her best friends are baking a special secret Halloween birthday cake for her. Hmmm... I wonder what it'll be?

Au Pair

Yes, I have done it! I signed up with a program which makes me an Au Pair. What is an Au Pair you ask? An Au Pair is defined as a foreign-national domestic assistant working for, and living as part of, a host family. Typically, Au Pairs take on a share of the family's responsibility for childcare as well as some housework, and receive a small monetary allowance for personal use. This is what they call work and travel. When you register, they ask you a load of questions about childcare. I thought it was suitable for me, as I absolutely love children at the age of 1 to 5 years old and I love to travel. Working as an Au Pair allows me to travel, take children under my care AND earn money! I registered USA, UK, Italy, France, and Japan as my preferred country to work in. They allow you to choose the age of the children you would like to care for and for how long you will be in service to the family. I chose from 2 months to 9 months. Being an Au Pair, the family that hosts you does not treat you like a servant or maid. Instead they treat you like apart of their family. Just that you have to take care of their child.

I just register 2 nights ago and I have already received offers from families which live in Los Angeles, Miami, New York, and Orlando. And that's just from the USA. I have received offers from UK and Italy as well. This is actually going really smoothly as I planned. I'm extremely excited to live with a family in a foreign country. It will expand my knowledge of lifestyles and cultures. The only problem for me is that I'll have to leave my Leo here for a huge amount of time. I'll miss him like crazy. He'll be in my mind all day, everyday. Not just him. I'll miss my family too!! Especially my adorable little sister, Shenz. She makes me smile every single day. One day without her would be torture. Well, I'll just have to make sacrifices to grab onto opportunities. There will never be success without sacrifice. I'm just worried about my future with Leo. I wonder what would happen. I guess we'll see how everything goes. See how fate brings me into the future and how strong our relationship is. I can see a very bright future for Leo and I, but I'm still afraid. I mean... who isn't?!?!

Back to Au Pair families. When Au Pairs stay and care for a family, the family gives the Au Pair an allowance. So far, I've been offered around 1,500 sterling pounds a month. That's like RM7,200 a month!! Doing what I love and getting an allowance as a bonus. I know from the start I would love this job. Getting paid for doing what you love, now THAT'S what I call a job. At least, I would wake up everyday and start work with a huge smile on my face.

Au Pair's are usually aged between 18 and 25 years old. So if you're interested, visit: Easy Au Pair at http://www.easyaupair.com/

Workout in disguise

Tonight we had it all planned. Leo and I were going out for a nice, peaceful and casual dinner. Had a great time eating. We chatted a whole lot mostly, asking each other about their day and wondering how was work. As our table was facing this huge flat screen TV mounted on the restaurant's wall, most of the time we were watching this program called "Riot Chase" or something like that. So while we ate, we watched numerous videos of people starting riots all over the world. Some of it were pretty violent and so not right for dinner time. I do not want to see a woman in a female jail get beaten up by 50 other women when I'm eating. Would you call that appetizing?

So anyway, after the extremely peaceful dinner, we made our way back. Just around 500 more meters to Leo's house, his car broke down. We tried to figure what happened as the car suddenly over heated and we couldn't start it. So I thought, "Hey! It's so near your place. Let's push!". So we started pushing with high spirits and with me controlling the wheel. After half of our journey, we collapsed. Two people with no constant exercise pushing a Honda 500 meters. Now it seemed pretty ridiculous. So in the end, a black car stopped and a malay guy got out of the car and helped us push. His wife and little daughter in the car were giving us encouragement. We did it! All 500 meters of it. I think it was a workout in disguise or maybe just someone, somewhere hinting that we have to work out more. It seems that the family that helped us were staying very near by and were on the way home when they saw us in trouble.

**For now, note to self: remember to buy gift basket for family who helped us push car!!

Thank you helpful citizens of Malaysia. Now looking back, an extremely ray of hope for the possibility of 1Malaysia!

A peek of happiness

Haven't been home for awhile as I've been crazy with work. When I got home a few days ago, I saw this innocent brown envelope with the plastic-covered Pos Laju thingy on it. Like a natural online shopper, I went crazy. Remember the blog shop I mentioned in my past post? The one about MiniBites? Well my item has arrived. I opened the package with care and I was faced with more wrappers. Until I reached bubble wrap! Beneath it was the most adorable thing I have ever seen in my life! As you know, I absolutely love miniature food items. A week ago I ordered a Chocolate Pie Ring. I wore it to Leo's cousin's birthday and I got a huge response. I was the belle of the ball. Everyone was trying to get a glimpse of that pie on my ring. Naturally I embraced being in the spot light.

The genius behind all the handmade crafts is a girl named Esther. We're planning to meet up to get to know each other better. I've been dying to meet her. By the way, she updated her blog shop with a whole new product. Adorable heart-shaped waffle ear studs! There are 3 types which are:-

~Strawberry Yoghurt Waffle Studs, which are heart-shaped waffles covered in vanilla yoghurt and topped with a slice of strawberry.

~Berry Smoothie Waffle Studs, which are heart-shaped waffles covered in vanilla yoghurt and topped with a cherry and 3 blueberries.

~Maple Story Waffle Studs, which are heart-shaped waffles covered in the basic maple syrup and topped with a pat of butter.

These waffles are the most adorable items and they look good enough to eat! So I made a custom order of a waffles ring. My waffles ring would be a basic square waffle covered in maple syrup and topped with a pat of butter and 2 slices of strawberry. Now that I can't wait to get. I'd be hungry all day looking at the rings on my fingers *giggles* When I got my Chocolate Pie ring, I took a few photos to send to her to show my appreciation for her hard work and creativity. So here are the pictures of me and the delectable ring!

The finer things in life

Honestly... It's been ages. I don't understand how all the other bloggers or my friends fill they're blogs up everyday. I do respect them for that though. I simply enjoy reading about their lifes and mostly I love shopping online. I'm so busy nowadays with life that I have no time to blog anymore. I think me, myself and I, would agree to write in this blog once in awhile. Just for the sake of releasing stress. I heard it's good for the soul.

Currently, Leo's in China on business. He's so busy with visits to clients and reports that everytime we Skype we talk a little and after awhile he has to get back to his reports. Although, I have to admit that this makes us appreciate each other more. I appreciate every single time I get to see him online. Unfortunately for him, it isn't really a holiday as he has to visit clients from 8am till 12am midnight. Right now on the opposite side of the internet, I see him look so tired and he's like that close to falling asleep. He's been gone for 10 days already. 2 more days and he'll be back. I honestly miss him so much. I hope he gets lotsa prezzies for me from China though... He better!! *sniggers*

On another note, as I was just surfing the web, I found the most amazing blog shop EVER!! Since forever, I've been in love with miniatures. Miniature food stuff especially. I've adored those people doing tutorials on YouTube. For me it would be quite difficult for me as it requires the right materials and steady hands. And those are exactly my problems. I do not have any idea to find polymer clay (plus it's very expensive), and I have thyroid, which is a condition I had since 2005. My active thyroid makes me weak, breathless, weakens my muscles, and it makes my hands shiver and shake. Exactly what I don't need to make those adorable miniature things. I love mini waffles, donuts, cake slices, pies... Everything! So I found this blog shop which is heaven for me called MiniBites. The owner of this blog, Esther, does everything handmade! I'd have to say she's extremely talented. I've ordered a few of the most adorable items she has on sale. What I would like now, would be a charm bracelet full of her amazing creations. I would recommend anyone to check it out! The next time you see me, I'll be wearing one of those mini food that you would die to take a bite from.



What I'm trying to do now is advance in life. I have agreed to myself that I will not settle for one job until I truely love it. So for now I have been through 5 extremely different jobs which have no connection to each other. My goal? To experience all kinds of jobs the world has to offer. Or more specifically, ALL experience jobs which interest me! And I don't mean things like janitor... or garbage woman... You understand. So the next job I'm aiming for and will get it is to be a flight attendant. It doesn't matter what company. As long as I get to experience it. Plus I always score every interview I go to. So wish me luck!!

New Job

Been such a long while since I've let it all out into this blog. Right now I'm sitting at my desk in my new office. What do we do? We're are an event company with other businesses on the side. We do events as well as organize samplings at various shopping malls for many different well known brands. As a newbie (been working for a month), it's been pretty confusing and hectic for me. Which means I gotta learn and pick up stuff real fast. One thing: thank god my boss is not from hell or an assistant of Hades. she's really nice and we have a lot in common. I understand her more than anyone else because I talk like her. She's absolutely hard working and always striving to be the best. The thing is that she's constantly busy and works 7 days a week. She needs a vacation. This company is built on all her hard work. So far I've witnessed 2 of her events and I think they're amazing. It's very nice to be able to see all your hard work paid off when the event is a success.

Anyway, the only thing I'm not a fan of in my job, are the sampling. What we have to do is compile up a long job list and then start calling tons and tons of people and ask if they're interested to work. Thank god I do not have to do it that much. I just type up random sales reports. So that is fine with me. The only problem is that sometimes I get a little bit confuse and mix stuff up. And another problem? I have the worst memory ever. So I have to carry a tiny notebook around writing everything I need to do. Sometimes the job get so crazy that I just go home, take a warm bath n go straight to sleep. I don't even remember the last time I watched TV!!!

Another I enjoy at the office is dressing up my cubicle. The office is all decked in red and white, just like our corporate logo. so went to IKEA to buy a few red stuff to put on my white table. Got a cork board, a red pillow for my chair, and a red and white pot with a pretty plant in it. In my desk drawer I have 2 boxes of Quakers Chewy Cookies & Cream granola bars and Chunky Chocolate granola bars. They taste amazing and with all my work they keep me full and happy. I'm happy with where I am now. I just have to keep improving myself so i can do perform better and get better results. My colleagues are absolutely fun people. Very eccentric and crazy. Except on guy, who's leaving. When I first joined he had this thing for me. When I say 'thing' I don't mean a crush. He hated my guts. Jealous that my boss treats me better. Oh well... office politics. I'm better off with out it.

Anyway back to work. Lots to do. Hope to write in more often.

XOXO

Pool or pool?

He leaned forward. His body against and above the pool table. He closes an eye as he aims his pool cue towards the white ball. There I was right opposite of him. All the way across the pool table. I was just standing there watching him, hoping he'll score. And then suddenly he raised his head slightly and I thought he wanted a better look. But he raised his head, looked at me with those adorable eyes and... wink! My heart melted so much I could just faint on the ground smiling *laughs* All my inside were warm and fuzzy. Best ever!

i love you, Leo! *muaks*

21 yr old mother?!?!

After 2 days and a night of taking care of my adorable little 2 year old nephew, Aidan, I'm so exhausted. It might be pretty difficult to take care of a child. It's a huge responsibility but my aunt asked me if I've had enough and given up. I said no I have not given up because everything I do and all the trouble I go through, It is all worth it when I see him happy and his cute little smile.

Now he's back with his mummy, Irene, in Sunway. When he was here at my house. I played with him and took care of him making him so attached with me till he calls me mummy LOL.. Kinda weird but it's so cute when he says that when I change his diaper. He knows if someone bullies him he'll just run to me with his arms wide open saying "pao-pao!!" and I would carry him. The night he slept over he didn't want to sleep with his Mi-ma, his grandma, but came to squeeze with me on my bed. So the whole night I was a very light sleeper. Making sure he's comfortable and won't have any nightmares. He moves alot on bed so I wasn't able to sleep. Tonight I'll make sure to sleep super early. Will add photos of Aidan as soon as I upload them.

Leo's coming back tomorrow from Johor Baharu. Miss him so much. During this CNY I haven't been spending enough time with him. i love you , Leo!! but at least I had Aidan to keep me company and busy. So the weekend went pass pretty fast for me. I hope he can come stay over again but I hope he remembers me.

I love little babies and toddlers!!

Complaints & lightning...

I'm personally a huge fan of Subway.

Most of the time I have it in Sunway Pyramid or SS15. I usually order the sub-of-the-day with my fave honey oat, extra cheese and crazy alot of olives. Today Leo and I went to the one in Leisure Mall, Cheras. I went to the counter to order what I always order. Then the guy said, "Honey Oat is sold out and for extra cheese we charge RM1.20". So yea.. kinda pissed because in any other outlet having extra cheese is free! I'm a regular Subway customer and you want to piss me off like that? So there I was ordering my vegetables and sauces. When I got to the cashier, I had to wait 10 mins to be able to pay for my food! There were 4 staff there but they were just sitting around and one guy was even sleeping!! I kept looking aroung for a complain or suggestion box but nope, there were none. Thank god having a Subway sandwich calms me down and gives me satisfaction or else I would've gone crazy... I still love Subway!


After Subway, Leo and I went to the arcade to vent some anger by playing.... the Photo Hunt game! Haven't played that in ages and realized I sucked at it. When we finished that, he still had 2 more tokens with him so he went to punch the sh*t outta some punching machine. That machine is to see how hard is the impact of the punch. When we got there, there were a few young boys playing with it and hell... they were not doing well. So after that, Leo went up to it and slid the tokens into the token slot. He got three punches. Didn't do as well as last time first one was 103, then 109 then the last punch he got 119!! So his total points were 331 points which got the number one spot of the week *laughs* So proud of my baby! Muaks!

Percy Jackson & The Lightning Thief
That's what we watched in GSC today. Leo found it very un-interesting and dull. Yet I found it amazing. Maybe it's because of my knowledge and interest in Greek myths and legends. For me, the storyline is very amazing and they did a good job in casting. Fresh new actors and actresses which did their job well in portraying their character. There was one part which disappointed me. That part is the part where Percy first gets introduced to the demi-god camp. Evertyhing about that part seemed... how should I say this? Messy, cheap and amateur. Love how greek gods and goddesses are placed in this story. 8.5/10 is what I would give. Watch it and see if you agree with me.


Now Leo's at home. With some friends over for CNY. They're there doing minor gambles by playing blackjack or poker or that 3 card thingy... *laughs* Don't know what it's called. Leo's been winning quite alot but I left early. Hope you're winning more now baby!! Muaks! Love you!

Cheerleading tomorrow. Finally. Miss them so much!!

Gong Xi Fa Cai & Happy Valentine's Day

Yeap! It is the 14th of February 2010. Sadly 2 events or celebrations fall on today. Valentine's day and Chinese New Year. Which means chinese couples don't get to be together as Chinese New Year is going back to one's family. So I would like to wish everyone:

GONG XI FA CAI

&

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY

Sadly, I might not be able to celebrate either one with my Leo as he will be busy with his family as well. These few days I've been missing him more than ever.

Anyway, for new year's eve, I cleaned up my room and some other parts of the house. Got dressed and head on to my relative's place for a new year's eve reunion dinner. It was fun as I got to spend so much time with little Aidan, my nephew. I could enjoy as many cans of Anglia Shandy as I want *giggle* What do I love about Chinese New Year?? I love Yee Sang, which is a dish we eat every year for CNY and who wouldn't love a reason to collect red packets with money in them? *laughs* It's like Christmas, but instead of exchanging presents, we give or collect red packets called 'ang pau' in Chinese.

I hope I get lots of red packets this year! *wink*

Yell green, gold, white!!

So angry, pissed but proud today... Weird feeling huh? Well yeah. Really angry and pissed today because I turned up at cheer practice today and realized that only the girls were there and 2 guys. Where were the others? So pissed that I called them and I couldn't get them. i know by now you're asking, "So where does the 'proud' come in?". Well, Chun Yang, a triple threat, he managed to do a single-base partner stunt!!

They're just high school level cheerleaders and wow... I'm so proud. Why Chun Yang is a triple threat? He can tumble, he has great strength and amazing jumping skills. He can do 10 toe-touches in a row non-stop! Love all my cheerleaders so much. Sarah an amazing flyer and Sherine, made her so touch till she cried when I gave her a nation-wide birthday present! Kai Ern's another great flyer. I really hope for once, green house will win the cheerleading competition during their sports day.

Kris Allen in KL

Yes yes yes!! Was at the Kris Allen concert at The Gardens Hotel KL!! My baby, Leo, was working there. So I got to go into the VVIP section where they served drinks and food. Loved it when Kris Allen started it with his rendition of 'Heartless' fr Kanye West. Awesome. Love his amazing voice control. At one point I was practically just mezmerized. I stood there and stared him like some idiot that I forgot to take videos *laughs* I bet he thinks I'm some psycho freak girl smiling to herself. I guess it was the light behind him and his guitar playing. Awe-freakin'-some. Got goody bags from the concert. An American Idol shirt and a Kris Allen Live in KL tag!!

I love Kris Allen but I gotta mention, in his band there was this really really hot guy. He plays the keyboard, guitar and bass. I Love Cale Mills!!! Look at that picture below! He's so so hot and much taller than Kris Allen. During the concert I just kept watching him. He has a nice voice too. Marry me Cale!! *laughs* He is just so fiiiineee!

I fell for Cale Mills...

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Well before all that excitement, I was at cheerleading practice. Had to coach the high school team. They're doing good but one fall brought their spirit down. I forced them to keep doing it till they made it perfect and they nailed it. Spirits were lifted again. The feeling you get when you nail a stunt... mmhmm... feels like "Hell yeah I'm the king of the world!!". You have to actually feel it yourself to understand. Everyday i spend with the cheerleaders I get closer and closer to them. I want them to succeed. I love you guys!

Shit happens...

Don't you agree? Sometimes life is so smooth sailing and everything is right where you want it to be, you're satisfied... happy. Then one day, something happens that hurts you emotionally and physically. It's like suddenly someone decides, "Hey, her life seems boring. Let's mess with her!". Then shit happens. It bites you on the butt.

Well, for me, today was the day it happened. Someone who I knew was the perfect one for me. Everything just had to start going wrong. We argued. I drank too much vodka. Puked then fell asleep. And the most surprising thing was that when I woke up. Everything seemed to have gone back to where it was. There I was, lying in his oh-so-comfortable bed, with him looking down on me with the most adorable smile I've ever seen. Then I realized, sometimes shit happens to make you better. When it happened to me, it worked out alright. I realized that what we both went through was to help us bond and to help us know how much we love each other. That's exactly what I love about him. He can be really stubborn at times but he knows how to make it better. I love you Leo!

Now that I've let that out in the blog and making me feel better. I found out that I was in love with something else as well. No not a 'someone'. More of a 'something'. It's the brown Miu Miu leather stripe patchwork handbag! A totally to-die-for! I don't care. I have to have it no matter how much it costs! The colour is exactly like shown in the picture below but the one I want is much smaller in size. The one in the picture below is just way too big. What do you think about it?


Miu Miu is a brand by Prada for younger generation clothes and accessories. Miu Miu is the nickname of the oh-so-famous Miuccia Prada and the line was started in 1992. Absolutely love it!

To coach or not to coach?

To coach or not to coach? That is the question. It does not mean I do not want to coach. It means my job is getting more and more difficult. Currently coaching cheerleading to a school's green house sport's team. It is living hell. No not the cheerleaders or students, it's the damn school and it's mountain high rules. They finally allowed competing cheerleading teams to be co-ed but there are consequences. What are the consequences you ask?

Guys are not allowed to touch the girls. Even if one hair is touched during the performance the team wil be disqualified. WTF?!?!?! The only reason why we want guys in the team, is so that we can get the guys to lift the girls during the stunts. This would make their routines look much more interesting and impressive. But noooo...! Would you rather see guys lift girls? Or guys lifting guys? No offense to the single sex male teams out there as they have no choice.

Did you know that when I first went to the school to meet them, the students involved in cheerleading told my that there was this rule where, when it is school time, they guy and girl students can't be seen walking with each other or just walking side by side or else they would get detention. I just had to laugh at that. I'm sorry. I just have to. That was the first... ever! Have you heard of that? Not even walking side by side. That would be darn easy to get your friends into detention *laughs*

Anyway, tomorrow I have to go to their school to figure out how to toughen up the girls for stunts or they won't be able to lift each other. That would be sad as it is a must. If their stunts aren't amazing, I'm gonna make sure their dance and routine is. I already have feeling that their uniforms would be so amazing.

So girls, we gotta beat this! We can do it! Green, gold, white! GO, WIN, FIGHT! Love you gurls. No matter how much we suck. I still lurve u LOL..

2 months...

It has been 2 months that I haven't been back to Sunway Pyramid. Been 2 months since the last time I ice skated. So today I went to the ice rink in Pyramid. Got there and started skating around 11am. Thank god there weren't much people there yet. Because I put my skates on, got onto the ice, started skating then brake and.... I fell down hard on my arse *ouch* Then I realized I couldn't do the things I could 2 months ago. I panicked *laughs* I'm so weird. My balance is totally gone. My hockey skates felt so foreign to me. I can't do things and I got very tired easily when skated. Well there I was, just keep trying while the rink guard watches and laughs. I'm glad I'm entertaining someone.

After 2 hours of going at it. Finally! I could do it. I was much more stable and I could skate like I used to 2 months ago. Been so long since I've seen any of my friends at the ice rink. First person I saw... Dion then Jordi. The Uncle Wong's son, Vincent, Edmund, and Mel Mel. So I felt at home. The ice is my second home. After a full day of skating, my feet really hurt but it was all worth it. Every part of it. Every fall I took.

Leo came to join me for dinner at Pyramid. We walked to Sushi Zanmai for a pretty awesome dinner. I had the Kakiage Don which was Japanese fried prawn fritters with a serving of rice. t was so satisfying but I couldn't finish it and had to let Leo eat it all. Surprisingly, when I skate, I don't get hungry. I could handle a whole day without meals, as long as I'm on the ice.

I <3 ice skating!

Chick flicks with a twist

Had a pretty frightening day. Woke up wih my whole body feeling so weak. Damned thyroid and bloody hormones. Too much of something is definitely bad enough. So it took me around 3 hours to recover and in that time what did I do? Waited for Leo to finish his class and watched a movie called Legacy. It's a show about some girls in a sorority called Omega Kappa (O.K). It is a typical chick flick with overly-perky characters and everything in pink. Stars Haylie Duff and Madeline Zima, the girl from Californication and The Nanny, which was aired years ago.

The girl's from the Omega Kappa sorority house gets themselves into a murder they can't solve. A movie about a rush party and a legacy which didn't fit in or as they would put it "better suited elsewhere". It's a pretty good storyline but the acting were not impessive. I'd give it 4.5/10 for sex, greek life, murder and investigation. Watch it! It might be your cup of tea.


Another movie I re-watched again was Confessions of a Shopaholic. As I remember? An amazing movie. Love the cast, the storyline, and everything else about it. This movie, as many of you have already watched it, I give it a rating of 9.5/10. Pretty high right? Well... It's worth that much. Very interesting as it is a story about a girl who is a shopaholic coming down with debts and financial problems. Watch and enjoy as she tries to climb out from mounting debt and meet the love of her live.


Chinese New Year is around the corner! I would like to wish everyone Gong Xi Fa Cai and may your dreams and wishes come true. Also wishing you prosperity and happiness in your life! ^^

Can food fly? Or will it get lost?

Have you ever had a feeling like you were lost in the forest all by yourself? It's like you feel empty, numb, lonely and frustrated. You don't know what to think or what to do next. That's exactly how I feel...

Sometimes I even wonder why I bother complaining. I keep telling myself I have to leave negative things behind and move forward with the positive. There are so many things in my mind right now that I dont know what to think. Sometimes I feel confident. Sometimes I feel stupid. Sometimes I feel happy. Sometimes i feel confused. I really have to figure myself out. If I can't do it, no one else can. So for Leo's sake I will.

Ok... Moving on to the not-so-depressing stuff. Leo, Shenz, Lynn and I went to Taylor's Thyme and Terragon Restaurant to be served by Adrian, Lynn's boyfriend. It was quite tensed at first, but the tension died down after a few dishes and we started going crazy like a bunch of hyper laughing hyenas. Really enjoyed it as the food was nice although the Black forest cake in the end was kinda "jelak". Made filling me up way too much that I started having the feeling of throwing up.


At the end of the dinner. We were laughing all the way back to the car. Shenz and I laughed till our stomach hurt. The crazy laughing fit started when we were in the ladies washroom and Lynn was halfway into a sentence then a random watery fart sound came from an occupied cubicle. We tried so hard not to burst out laugh or at least tried to laugh silently... But we just couldn't hold it in, especially after the laughing session we had in the restaurant. When we left it was raining slightly and we looked around the campus.


The new Taylor's campus looked really beautiful from afar. I was very disappointed in the finishing though. Discolored cement stairs?? Horrible wall plastering and paint?? Exposed pipping, holes and cables at the ceiling?? Did we really pay them this much for this to happen. Oh well, we're just students. I have to admit though. The facilities are impressing. For example, the library, when I went there I was very impressed that they manage to create an environment which students would feel comfortable studying in. Another impressing feature was the landscaping around the buildings. very nicely done grass and outdoor stair area to the boardwalk. Loved the board walk and the miniature waterfall in front of Thymes.


Quite discouraged by the fact they mentioned "Lake-Side Campus" when it was more of a "Mine-Side Campus". I can tell you, that thing is freakin' deep. I would caution ladies wearing heels in the campus. Might be a little difficult to walk around due to amazing landscaping and different surfaces.